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　　标题：RelationshipBreakdownHitsThisSexHarder
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　　Surveyofalmost100countriesrevealswhichsexsuffersmoreafterabreakup。
　　Womenexperiencemoreemotionalpainrightafterabreakupthanmen，anewstudyfinds。
　　Women，though，tendtorecovermorefully，giventime。
　　It’smenthathavemoretroublerecoveringfrombreakupsinthelongterm。
　　Theconclusionscomefromasurveyof5，705peopleinalmost100countries。
　　Peoplewereaskedtoratetheemotionalandphysicalpainofabreakup。
　　DrCraigMorris，wholedthestudy，explaineditintermsofbiology：
　　Putsimply，womenareevolvedtoinvestfarmoreinarelationshipthanaman。
　　Abriefromanticencountercouldleadtoninemonthsofpregnancyfollowedbymanyyearsoflactationforanancestralwoman，whilethemanmayhave‘leftthescene’literallyminutesaftertheencounter，withnofurtherbiologicalinvestment。
　　Itisthis‘risk’ofhigherbiologicalinvestmentthat，overevolutionarytime，hasmadewomenchoosieraboutselectingahighqualitymate。
　　Hence，thelossofarelationshipwithahighqualitymate‘hurts’moreforawoman。
　　Thisevolutionaryexplanationcanalsobeappliedtomen，DrMorrissaid：
　　Themanwilllikelyfeelthelossdeeplyandforaverylongperiodoftimeasit‘sinksin’thathemust‘startcompeting’alloveragaintoreplacewhathehaslostorworsestill，cometotherealizationthatthelossisirreplaceable。
　　Peopleexperienceanaverageofthreebreakupsbytheir30s。
　　Atleastoneofthesewillusuallyaffectpeoplestrongly。
　　DrMorrissaid：
　　Peoplelosejobs，studentswithdrawfromclasses，andindividualscaninitiateextremelyselfdestructivebehaviorpatternsfollowingabreakup。
　　WithbetterunderstandingofthisemotionalandphysicalresponsetoabreakupPostRelationshipGriefwecanperhapsdevelopawaytomitigateitseffectsinalreadyhighriskindividuals。
　　ThestudywaspublishedinthejournalEvolutionaryBehaviouralSciences