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　　标题：25IncredibleNovelsYouMustReadAtLeastOnceInYourLife
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　　Thinkaboutoneofthequestionsbelowforamoment。
　　Ifyouaremarried，inwhatwayisthegirlyoudateddifferentfromthewomanyoumarried？Ifyouaresingleordating，inwhatwaydoyouwantthewomanyoumarrytobedifferentfromthegirlyouaredating？Whatthoughtscometoyourmind？Ibetyouhaveafewthoughts，Ialsodo。
　　Afterbeingmarriedforover3yearstomyawesomewife，lcantestifythatthegirlldatedisdifferentfromthewomanlproudlycallmywife。ShehasdefinitelyimprovedinwaysIneverimagined，andforthebetter。
　　Ifyougothroughdatingandyourmarriagejourney，youwillinevilookbacktorealizethegirlyoudatedisdifferentfromthewomanaremarriedto。Toclarify，ldonotmeanshewouldbecomeabrandnewperson。Whatlmeanisthatherprioritiesandperspectiveaboutlifeandmarriagewillimproveinmanyways。Hopefully，forthebetter。
　　Eitherway，thewomanyoumarrywillnotbethesameasthegirlyoudated。
　　1。Thegirlyoudatedoesnotwanttomeetyourfamilyorfriends，shewantsyoualltoherself。
　　Thewomanyoumarrywantstoknowyourfamilyandfriends。Sheknowswithoutthem，youwouldnotbewhereyouare，andwhoyouaretoday。
　　2。Thegirlyoudateisoverlyworriedabouthernailsbeendoneallthetime，hereyelasheslookinginacertainstyle，andbeingbeautifulforherpeers。Herphysicalbeautyisimportanttoher。
　　Thewomanyoumarryisnotoverlyworriedabouthernailsbeingdone。Instead，sheisworriedaboutbeingbeautifulforherman，evenifthatmeanswearingnomakeup。Shefocusesonherinternalbeautyandcharacterbuilding，becausesheknowsrealbeautycomesfromwithin。
　　3。Thegirlyoudateonlycaresabouthercareerandhervisionforlife。Shecomesbeforetherelationship，anddoesnotmakeherfutureplanswithyouinmind。
　　Thewomanyoumarrycaresaboutyourcareerandyourvisionoflifeaswellasherown。Sheknowsyoualsohaveaplan，andworkstogetherwithyoutoachievethegoalsyoubothhave。Themarriageisherpriority。
　　4。Thegirlyoudatelovesthefinancialcushionyoucanprovide。Shealsoexpectssomethingbackwhenevershegives。
　　Thewomanyoumarrywantstobuildafinancialcushionwithyou。Shebelievesthattwoheadswillalwaysbebetterthanone。Whenshegives，shedoesnotexpectanythingback。
　　5。Thegirlyoudatebelievessheknowseverything。
　　Thewomanyoumarryisopentolearningsomethingnew，andknowsthereisalwaysroomforimprovement。
　　6。Thegirlyoudateisscaredtotellyouherdeepestsecrets。
　　Thewomanyoumarrywillshareherdeepestsecretswithyou，evenifitmeanslosingyou。Shetrustsyou，andshareseverythingwithyou。Sheknowshonestyisalwaysthebestpolicy。
　　7。Thegirlyoudatedoesnotgetexcitedaboutmarriageandchildren（evenifshewantstohavesomeoneday）。
　　Thewomanyoumarrygetsexcitedaboutmarriageandstartingafamilywithyou。
　　8。Thegirlyoudateshowshercleavageallthetime。
　　Thewomanyoumarryismoremodestbecausesheknowsherattributesareforyoureyesonly。
　　9。Thegirlyoudateisnotconcernedaboutcookingforyou。
　　Thewomanyoumarrylovesnotonlytocook，butchoosesdeliciousandhealthymeals。Thewaytoaman’sheartisthroughhisstomachafterall，right？
　　10。Thegirlyoudateisoverlyconcernedabouthowlongyouwillbearound，andhowshecankeepyou。
　　Thewomanyoumarryisnottooconcernedaboutkeepingyoubecausesheknowsyouwanttohaveafuturewithher。Sheismatureenoughtoknowyoucanneverforcesomeonetostayandthatyoueachhavetochooseeachothereveryday，againandagain。
　　11。Thegirlyoudateisnotwillingtocompromisewithyou。
　　Thewomanyoumarryiswillingtocompromise，andseescompromiseasanecessityforahealthymarriage
　　12。Thegirlyoudatethrivesonconstantattentionfromyou。
　　Thewomanyoumarrymirrorsyouraffectionandthrivesonprovidingyouwiththelove，support，andrespectyouneed。
　　13。Thegirlyoudatetriestochangewhoyouareandcomparesyoutoherex。
　　Thewomanyoumarryacceptsyouforwhoyouareandwillnotcompareyoutoherex。Sheknowsyouarethebestandthatyoucannotchangeanotherpersonnomatterhowhardyoutry。
　　14。Thegirlyoudatehastobeentertained。
　　Thewomanyoumarryissomeoneyoucanhavefunwith，relax，doactivities，ordonothingtogetherandstillenjoyeachother’scompany。
　　Whatareyourthoughtsonthesedifferencesbetweenthegirlyoudateandthewomanyoumarry？